At Your Little Way, we understand the importance of quality time spent with our children. This is where you can build strong bonds, create lasting memories, and provide the support and guidance your child needs.
Parenting can be a challenging journey filled with joy, tantrums (not just the kids), and loads of learning opportunities for you and your child. As parents, we all want to provide THE BEST for our children and create a loving and nurturing environment for them to thrive. However, a common theme I have encountered in my work and personal life is that, as parents, we often wonder if we are doing it right. The truth is there are more instructions when you buy a toaster. However, despite children not coming with a manual, a positive thought is that there are certainly some tips and insights that can help parents find a way that works for their unique family.
My five tips are:
1. Be present and engaged: In today’s fast-paced world and with work-life boundaries more blurred than ever, it’s easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of daily life. But when it comes to parenting, being present and engaged is essential. Little and often tends to work well. There is no need or real point in being together all day on the couch with you on your phone and the toddler on the tablet. Avoid distractions, turn off your phone, and focus on your child. Engage in activities, whether playing, reading, or exploring the world around you *. Focus on them entirely during your activity together.
For tips on what to play, read and explore please look out for my next blog!
2. Create a safe and open environment: Your Little Way is committed to providing a safe and inclusive space for families to discuss their parenting journey openly. Creating a similar environment in your home is crucial. Encourage communication; listen to your child’s thoughts and feelings. Discuss and confirm their emotions. It is important to let them know that their voice matters and they can always come to you for support. A key phrase I have always used with my two children is, “Mummy may not like it, but I will ALWAYS help you!”
3. Play together: Play is not just a way for children to have fun but also a powerful tool for learning and development. Join your child in imaginative play, get down on the floor and build that tower together, or have a tea party with their stuffed animals. Play allows you to connect with your child on their level and fosters creativity, problem-solving skills, and social development.
4. Get some guidance and support: Remember, you don’t know what you don’t know! Seeking guidance and support is not a sign of weakness but a testament to your commitment as a parent. It will give you different perspectives and advice on how to approach a challenge. Don’t hesitate to reach out to professionals, friends, and family members. Think about joining some parenting support groups, or attend classes that can provide you with valuable insights and strategies. Remember, no one has all the answers, and asking for help and advice is okay. But remember – This is advice and guidance. You are the parent and can choose what is right for your family. Think of this as a dip in and dip out option.
5. Practice self-care: As parents, we often put our own needs to the back of the queue. However, taking care of ourselves is essential for our mental health, general well-being and affects our ability to care for our children. Ask yourself these questions: If you are sick, what happens then? If you feel unwell or distracted, how present are you? Make time for yourself so that you can recharge your batteries and feel able to engage fully. You can do this by trying things like reading or listening to a book, going for a walk, or enjoying a hobby. DON’T FORGET to include eating well, taking your vitamins, and staying hydrated! If your baby, toddler, child is getting UPF FREE/ORGANIC (this list goes on) then so you should be too! You are important.
The quest to be a successful parent is an ongoing journey and will without a doubt change regularly. There will be ups and downs, and if you are like me LOTS of moments of doubt, pure disbelief (not always good) and moments of pure joy. But with some kindness to ourselves, love, LOTS of patience, and a commitment to try, we can create a nurturing environment within which our children can thrive. Remember, you are the architect of your child’s world, and with your love and care, you can create a space where they can grow and flourish.
I hope that you have found this helpful. At Your Little Way, we support you every step of the way, providing trusted guidance and a safe space for you and your family. Please do get in touch.
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