It’s that time of year again. School offers have gone out, and many of you will now be facing a summer filled with big feelings and even bigger questions: Is my child ready for school? Am I ready?
I remember when I was in this stage myself — I literally had nightmares about my daughter managing her school dinner tray in a busy hall! Funny how it’s often the small, random things that keep us up at night. But these worries are valid, and they’re shared by many.
Right now, in my current setting — one that follows the Curiosity Approach — we focus on a more intuitive, child-led journey. Relationships, emotional development, and self-regulation are our foundations. It’s such a beautiful way to support children in becoming confident and curious learners.
But I’ve also worked in more structured environments where some children, aged just 3 or 4, could already write their name, sound out letters, and begin to read. And while those achievements are amazing, they also come with pressure — for the child, for the practitioner, and especially for the parents. It can feel so stressful.
So, what does “school readiness” really mean?
For us, it’s not about flashcards or tracing sheets (though those can have their place too!). It’s about building confidence, resilience, and a sense of independence — the real tools a four-year-old needs to thrive.
Here are some gentle school readiness tips for you and your child as you navigate this exciting, emotional summer:
🌱 For Children:
- Practice independence: Encourage them to put on their own shoes, zip up their coat, use the toilet confidently, and open their lunchbox.
- Name recognition: They don’t need to write it perfectly, but it’s helpful if they can recognise their own name, especially on labels and pegs.
- Emotional expression: Help them find words for big feelings. Being able to say “I’m sad” or “I need help” is so important.
- Social skills: Sharing, taking turns, and being able to play alongside others are huge wins — don’t underestimate them.
- Fine motor fun: Activities like threading, playdough, or using scissors help strengthen little hands for writing later.
🌸 For Parents:
- Trust the process: Children grow and develop in their own time. School readiness is not a race.
- Talk positively about school: Even if you’re feeling anxious, try to project excitement and curiosity.
- Model resilience: Show them how to deal with mistakes or tricky situations calmly — they learn so much from you!
- Ask for support: If you’re unsure or need ideas, reach out. Teachers, settings, and other parents can be great sources of wisdom.
- Remember, connection comes first: Children who feel loved and secure learn best.
So… how are you feeling? What’s important to you at the moment?
Whether you’re feeling totally calm or a bit panicked, you’re not alone. We’re right here with you. ❤️
Contact us at Your Little Way — we’d love to hear from you, share the journey, and support you every step of the way.
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